We often try so hard to reinvent the wheel. It seems to me that it would be a lot easier to simply become educated. There are of course many ways to become educated into the mystery of Wisdom and Compassion. Listen to your elders, read the classics, study wisdom literature or be still and let the universe teach you. you can even go to the city gate (if you live in a city and it still has a gate) and listen to Woman Wisdom!
However you decide to educate yourself into the mysteries I offer you my best wishes and blessing.